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The Long Game: Building Relationships That Pay Off Years Later

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Today, we’re talking about how building real relationships now can mean big wins later, or in other words the magic of playing the long game in sales. (Spoiler: It’s not about being a robot or sending 1,000 cold emails a day.)

In Today’s Jam

  • Sales Tip Of The Week: Time Management

  • The Sales Lab: How to Build Relationships That Last

  • Weekly Poll: How Do You Build Relationships in Sales?

  • Sales Q&A: Why Prospects Don’t Buy

  • Grab these follow-up templates

  • Sales Clip Of The Week: Relationship Issues?

The Sales Lab🔬: How to Build Relationships That Last

The best relationship builders don't just think about today's sale. They think about the lifetime value of every connection.

The best salespeople aren’t the ones who close the fastest. They’re the ones who keep showing up, even when there’s no deal in sight.

Here's how to master the long game without sacrificing short-term results 📈

Here’s how to play the long game:

Start with the End in Mind

The best relationship builders don't just think about today's sale. They think about the lifetime value of every connection.

That means asking yourself: "What could this relationship look like in 5 years?"

Will a marketing manager become a VP?

Will the VP go to a different company?

What about you?

The connections you make, the value you create, and the way you make people feel interacting with you pays dividends.

Give Without Expecting and Become A Resource

Stop thinking like someone who sells stuff. Start thinking like someone who solves problems.

Share a helpful article.

Make an intro.

Offer advice.

Do it because you care, not because you want something right now.

And people can tell when you have a motive.

When they finally have budget and need, guess who they'll call first?

Stay In Touch

Here's a simple framework for staying top-of-mind without being annoying:

Touch 1: Congratulate them on company news or personal achievements

Touch 2: Share a relevant industry report or insight

Touch 3: Make a valuable introduction to someone in your network

Touch 4: Invite them to an industry event or webinar

Touch 5: Check in with a simple "How's business?" message

Spread these touches over 6-12 months. Then repeat.

The Network Effect

Long-term relationship building creates a snowball effect.

Your relationships can refer you business, that new business can refer you business.

Big networks offer big rewards.

“It’s not what you know - it’s who you know”

But this only works if you're genuinely helpful, not just transactional.

How do you build your relationships in sales?

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Sales Q&A

Why Prospects Don’t Buy?

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How to Turn Networking into Prospecting

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Sales Scene of the Week🎬

Relationship Issues?

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